Guided Imagery & Relaxation Skill

Visualization

Visualization means deliberately imagining a place, scene, sensation, or experience that helps direct your attention in a supportive way. You might imagine somewhere calming, picture yourself moving through a difficult moment effectively, or create a simple sensory image such as warmth spreading through your hands. Visualization does not require seeing a vivid picture in your mind. Use whatever combination of images, sounds, sensations, words, or spatial awareness works for you.

What Is Visualization?

Visualization is the deliberate use of imagination to create an internal experience.

You might imagine:

  • A place you find calming
  • A familiar room
  • A beach, forest, garden, or other setting
  • A comforting sound
  • Warmth or heaviness spreading through the body
  • Yourself handling a difficult situation effectively
  • A stressful feeling gradually changing shape or intensity

Although the word:

“visualization”

sounds visual, useful imagery can involve:

  • Sight
  • Sound
  • Touch
  • Temperature
  • Smell
  • Taste
  • Movement
  • Words or descriptions

How This Relates to Therapy Skills

Visualization Is Not a Standalone Formal DBT Skill

Visualization is a broader mind-body and relaxation technique.

It is not one of DBT's standalone skill acronyms.

Imagery Is Part of the Formal DBT IMPROVE Skill

In DBT, the first letter of:

IMPROVE

stands for:

Imagery.

Imagery can be used during distress to mentally create something more:

  • Calming
  • Hopeful
  • Supportive
  • Manageable

while you get through the current moment.

Visualization can therefore be one way to practice the imagery portion of IMPROVE.

Guided Imagery Is the Broader Clinical Term

Guided imagery often involves someone or a recording leading you through an imagined experience.

Once familiar with the technique, you can also guide yourself.

Visualization and guided imagery overlap substantially, although different programs may use the terms differently.

Try This Now

Choose → Build → Sense → Return

  1. Choose:
    Think of a place that feels comfortable, pleasant, interesting, or neutral.
  2. Build:
    Imagine a few details of the setting.
  3. Sense:
    Add whatever sensory details are available to you: sound, temperature, touch, smell, movement, or visual detail.
  4. Return:
    When your attention wanders, gently return to one detail of the imagined scene.

For example:

“I'm sitting somewhere in the shade. The air is comfortable. I can hear leaves moving. My chair supports my back. Nothing is asking anything from me right now.”

Stay with the scene for a few breaths or a few minutes.

You Do Not Need to See a Picture in Your Mind

Mental Imagery Varies a Lot From Person to Person

Some people experience very vivid mental pictures.

Others experience:

  • Faint images
  • Brief impressions
  • Spatial awareness without a clear picture
  • Mostly words or concepts
  • Little or no voluntary visual imagery

None of these means you are doing the exercise incorrectly.

Use the Senses That Work Best for You

If you cannot clearly picture a beach, you might still imagine:

  • The sound of waves
  • Warm air
  • Sand beneath your feet
  • The smell of the ocean
  • The idea of sitting near the water

The experience does not need to look like a movie in your head.

Words Can Be Part of Imagery Too

If verbal thinking comes more naturally, quietly describe the scene to yourself.

For example:

“There is a bench. It is quiet. The air is cool. I can hear water nearby.”

You do not need to force visual pictures that are not available.

Build the Experience With Several Senses

Sight

If visual imagery is available to you, notice:

  • Colors
  • Light
  • Shapes
  • Distance
  • Movement

You do not need every detail to be sharp.

Sound

Imagine what you might hear.

Maybe:

  • Water
  • Wind
  • Birds
  • Rain
  • Quiet music
  • A familiar voice
Touch and Temperature

Imagine:

  • Warm sunlight
  • Cool air
  • A soft blanket
  • A chair supporting you
  • Grass beneath your feet

Sometimes imagined physical sensations are easier to access than visual details.

Smell and Taste

You might imagine:

  • Coffee
  • Rain
  • Trees
  • Food
  • Ocean air

Use these senses only when they help make the experience more engaging.

Movement

You might imagine yourself:

  • Walking
  • Floating
  • Sitting
  • Stretching
  • Moving through a familiar place

Imagery can include the sense of movement, not only a still picture.

Choose a Scene That Actually Works for You

You Do Not Have to Imagine a Beach

Relaxation recordings often use:

  • Beaches
  • Forests
  • Mountains

Those settings are not universally relaxing.

You might prefer:

  • Your bedroom
  • A library
  • A favorite chair
  • A workshop
  • A garden
  • A quiet cafe
  • An imaginary room
Real or Imaginary Both Work

Your scene can be:

  • A real place you remember
  • A combination of several places
  • Entirely invented

The goal is not photographic accuracy.

Choose imagery that supports the purpose of the exercise.

Neutral Can Be Better Than “Perfectly Safe”

Some guided exercises ask you to imagine:

“the safest place imaginable.”

That instruction can feel difficult for some people.

You can instead choose somewhere that feels:

  • Comfortable enough
  • Quiet enough
  • Interesting
  • Neutral
  • Less demanding

The setting does not have to produce a perfect sense of safety.

Calming Imagery

Imagine a Lower-Demand Environment

Build a scene where less is required of you.

Maybe:

  • No one needs an answer
  • There is nowhere you have to rush
  • The temperature feels comfortable
  • Your body is supported
  • The surroundings are predictable

Let your attention spend a little time there.

Add Details Slowly

Start with only:

one detail.

For example:

“I hear rain against the window.”

Then add:

“I'm sitting somewhere warm.”

There is no need to build an elaborate imaginary world immediately.

Imagine a Supportive Sensation

Visualization Does Not Need a Full Scene

You might simply imagine:

  • Warmth in your hands
  • A comfortable heaviness in your shoulders
  • A cool breeze against your face
  • Being wrapped in a soft blanket

Stay with the sensation for several breaths.

Notice whether your body responds at all.

No particular response is required.

Visualization Can Also Be Used for Coping Rehearsal

Imagine Yourself Using a Skill

If you expect a difficult situation, imagine the challenge beginning.

Then imagine yourself:

  • Pausing
  • Breathing
  • Using a coping skill
  • Speaking clearly
  • Taking a break if needed
  • Returning to what matters

Focus on:

coping effectively,

not on creating a fantasy in which nothing difficult happens.

Rehearse What You Can Control

You cannot reliably imagine:

exactly how another person will behave.

You can imagine:

  • How you want to respond
  • What skill you will use
  • What boundary you will maintain
  • What you will do if the situation becomes difficult
This Overlaps With Coping Ahead

The formal DBT skill:

Coping Ahead

uses mental rehearsal of coping effectively with an anticipated difficult situation.

Visualization can therefore be one tool used within Coping Ahead.

See that skill when you are preparing for a specific future event.

Visualization Is Not “Manifesting”

Imagining an Outcome Does Not Make It Happen

Visualization can help you:

  • Focus attention
  • Relax
  • Rehearse a response
  • Prepare for a situation

It does not give your thoughts control over external events.

Imagining:

“Everything will go perfectly”

cannot guarantee that outcome.

For Preparation, Imagine Coping Rather Than Perfect Results

Instead of:

“The interview goes perfectly and they immediately hire me,”

try:

“I notice that I'm nervous. I slow down, listen to the question, and answer as clearly as I can.”

That rehearses your behavior without pretending you control the outcome.

When You Feel Anxious

Give Your Attention Somewhere Else to Go

Anxiety may repeatedly generate images of what could go wrong.

Visualization can deliberately shift some attention toward another internally generated experience.

You might return to:

  • The sound of imagined rain
  • A familiar room
  • The feeling of sitting somewhere comfortable

each time worry pulls your attention away.

Do Not Fight With the Anxiety Image

If your mind creates a frightening image, you do not need to argue with it until it disappears.

Try:

“That's the anxiety image. I'm returning to the scene I chose.”

Use External Grounding if Imagery Makes Anxiety Worse

Imagery is not helpful for everyone during high anxiety.

If closing your eyes and imagining things makes you feel:

  • More panicked
  • More trapped in your thoughts
  • Less connected to your surroundings

stop the exercise and use something more externally focused, such as:

  • Grounding
  • Counting objects
  • Present-Moment Focus
  • Mindful Walking

When You Feel Overwhelmed

Use a Simple Scene, Not an Elaborate Exercise

When your mind is already overloaded, a complicated visualization may be too much.

Try one image:

“I'm sitting under a tree in the shade.”

Add only:

  • One sound
  • One sensation
  • One visual detail

Keep the exercise easy enough to follow.

Visualization Can Support Relaxation

Pair Imagery With a Comfortable Position

Sit or lie somewhere reasonably comfortable if the situation allows.

Let your body be supported.

Then bring attention to your chosen imagery.

Breathing Can Be Included but Is Not Required

You might allow your breathing to become slower while imagining the scene.

Or simply let breathing happen naturally.

If focusing on breathing makes you uncomfortable, keep your attention on the imagery instead.

Relaxation Is Possible, Not Mandatory

You may finish a visualization feeling:

  • Calmer
  • The same
  • Distracted
  • Restless

The exercise does not need to produce a dramatic relaxation response to have been practiced correctly.

Visualization Is Sometimes Used Alongside Pain Management

Imagery Can Shift Attention or Change How You Relate to a Sensation

Some guided imagery practices invite you to imagine:

  • Warmth around an uncomfortable area
  • A painful sensation changing color or shape
  • Attention moving toward a more comfortable body area

The goal is not to pretend pain is not real.

Imagery Does Not Diagnose or Treat the Cause of Pain

Visualization may be one supportive coping technique.

It does not replace appropriate medical evaluation or treatment.

New, severe, worsening, or concerning pain deserves appropriate attention.

Visualization Can Be Part of a Wind-Down Routine

Use Low-Demand Imagery Before Sleep

You might imagine:

  • A familiar quiet place
  • Rain
  • Floating
  • Walking slowly through a peaceful setting

to move attention away from planning or problem solving.

Do Not Make the Image Responsible for Making You Sleep

Avoid:

“If I visualize correctly, I should fall asleep now.”

The exercise can simply be part of winding down.

Persistent insomnia may need more than relaxation techniques alone.

Your Eyes Can Be Open or Closed

Closing Your Eyes Is Optional

Some people find imagery easier with their eyes closed.

Others feel:

  • More comfortable
  • More oriented
  • Less vulnerable

with their eyes open.

You can use:

  • Open eyes
  • A soft gaze
  • A neutral object as a visual anchor

while imagining.

Stop or Modify the Exercise if Imagery Becomes Distressing

Relaxation Practices Can Occasionally Increase Distress

Some people experience:

  • Increased anxiety
  • Intrusive thoughts
  • Unwanted memories
  • Fear of losing control

during relaxation or imagery exercises.

You do not need to force yourself through this.

Change the Scene if It Develops Unwanted Associations

A place that sounds relaxing in theory may remind you of something difficult.

Change it.

You can choose:

  • A different location
  • A more neutral image
  • A single sensory detail
  • An external grounding exercise instead
Orient Back to the Room if Needed

If imagery becomes too intense:

  1. Open your eyes if they were closed.
  2. Look around the room.
  3. Name where you are.
  4. Notice your feet or the chair supporting you.
  5. Identify several things you can see or hear.

Grounding may be a better fit for that moment.

Expect Your Mind to Wander

You May Leave the Scene Without Realizing It

You might be imagining a quiet garden and suddenly realize you are thinking about:

  • Tomorrow's schedule
  • An argument
  • Work
  • Your grocery list

That is normal.

Return to One Detail

You do not need to rebuild the entire image.

Return to:

one sound, one sensation, or one visual detail.

Then continue if you want to.

Use Guided Audio if Creating the Imagery Yourself Is Difficult

A Recording Can Provide the Structure

Guided recordings can tell you:

  • What to imagine
  • When to add details
  • When to move attention
  • When to return to the present

This can make the practice easier when you do not want to generate instructions yourself.

You Are Still in Control of the Imagery

A recording may suggest:

“Imagine walking through a forest.”

If you dislike forests, choose somewhere else.

You can:

  • Modify the scene
  • Skip an instruction
  • Open your eyes
  • Stop the recording

Use Immersive Visualization Only When It Is Safe to Reduce Attention to Your Surroundings

Do Not Use Guided Imagery While Driving

Do not close your eyes or deliberately become absorbed in internal imagery while:

  • Driving
  • Operating machinery
  • Crossing traffic
  • Doing another task that requires full attention

Choose a coping strategy that keeps your attention on the environment instead.

Exercises & Applications

One-Minute Comfortable Place

Choose somewhere comfortable or neutral.

For one minute, imagine:

  1. One thing you would see
  2. One thing you would hear
  3. One physical sensation

Keep returning to those three details.

Five-Sense Imagery

Choose a familiar or invented place.

Ask:

See:
What is around me?

Hear:
What sounds are present?

Feel:
What is touching my body? What is the temperature?

Smell:
Is there a scent?

Taste:
Is there anything I imagine tasting?

Skip senses that are not useful.

One-Sense Visualization

If full scenes are difficult, choose only one sense.

For example:

imagine the sound of steady rain for one minute.

Or:

imagine warm sunlight on your hands.

A complete scene is unnecessary.

Familiar-Room Visualization

Picture or mentally describe a room you know well.

Imagine moving around it.

Notice:

  • Where the doors are
  • Where furniture sits
  • What the lighting is like
  • What you might hear

This can be easier than inventing a new environment.

Imaginary Room

Imagine a room designed entirely around what feels comfortable to you.

Choose:

  • Lighting
  • Temperature
  • Furniture
  • Sounds
  • Who is or is not allowed there

There is no need for the room to be physically possible.

Warmth Visualization

Imagine comfortable warmth beginning in:

your hands.

Then imagine it gradually spreading through:

  • Hands
  • Arms
  • Shoulders

Notice whether your actual sensations change at all.

Do not force a particular response.

Let It Drift Away

Imagine placing a difficult thought or emotion onto:

  • A leaf moving downstream
  • A cloud passing overhead
  • A train moving away

Watch it move without needing to destroy it.

This overlaps strongly with:

Thought Defusion.

Coping Rehearsal

Think of an upcoming situation.

Imagine:

  1. The difficult moment beginning
  2. Your emotional reaction
  3. You noticing the reaction
  4. You using a coping skill
  5. You taking the next effective action

Practice the part that is under your control.

Visualization Plus Breathing

Choose a simple image.

As you breathe in, imagine:

making room.

As you breathe out, imagine:

releasing some tension.

Keep the breathing gentle and comfortable.

If this feels forced, use the imagery without changing your breath.

Visualization Before a Difficult Conversation

Imagine yourself:

  • Entering the conversation
  • Speaking slowly
  • Listening
  • Using an “I” Statement
  • Setting your boundary if necessary
  • Pausing if emotions rise

If you are preparing for a specific difficult event, the full:

Coping Ahead

skill may be especially useful.

Build Your Own Go-To Image

Create one scene you can return to repeatedly.

Decide:

  • Where you are
  • What you hear
  • What the temperature is
  • What your body is supported by
  • What makes the scene low-demand or comforting

Practicing the same imagery can make it easier to recall when distressed.

Before-and-After Check

Before practicing, rate:

  • Tension
  • Anxiety
  • Mental overload

Practice visualization for several minutes.

Then check again.

Do not require the numbers to improve.

You are learning whether this particular imagery works for you.

Common Difficulties

“I Can't See Anything”

Stop trying to force a picture.

Try imagining:

  • Sound
  • Touch
  • Temperature
  • Movement

Or describe the scene verbally.

People vary substantially in voluntary visual imagery.

“My Image Isn't Vivid”

Vividness is not a score you need to maximize.

A vague sense of:

“I'm sitting somewhere quiet”

may be enough to hold your attention.

“I Keep Getting Distracted”

Return to one simple detail.

Maybe:

the sound of rain.

You do not need to restart the entire visualization.

“I Can't Think of a Relaxing Place”

Do not require something deeply relaxing.

Choose somewhere:

  • Neutral
  • Familiar
  • Comfortable enough
  • Interesting

Or skip a place entirely and imagine a single supportive sensation.

“The Scene Starts Turning Negative”

You do not need to wrestle control of the image.

Open your eyes, orient to the room, and either:

  • Choose a different image
  • Use a simpler sensory detail
  • Switch to Grounding

if that feels better.

“Visualization Makes Me More Anxious”

Stop the exercise.

Notice actual:

  • Objects
  • Sounds
  • Surfaces
  • Colors

around you.

External Grounding may be a better coping strategy.

“I Tried It and Didn't Relax”

Visualization does not reliably produce relaxation every time.

Ask:

  • Did it hold my attention?
  • Did it provide any break from rumination?
  • Was the scene actually comfortable for me?
  • Would another skill fit better?

You are allowed to choose something else.

“I Fall Asleep”

This may happen, especially when practicing lying down or before bed.

If you want to remain awake, try:

  • Sitting upright
  • Keeping your eyes open
  • Practicing earlier in the day
“I Feel Silly Making Something Up”

The image does not need to be real.

It is an intentional attention and imagination exercise.

If invented imagery feels unnatural, use:

  • A real memory
  • A familiar place
  • A guided recording

Visualization vs. Grounding

Visualization Directs Attention Toward an Imagined Experience

You deliberately create or remember:

  • An internal scene
  • A sensation
  • An imagined experience
Grounding Usually Directs Attention Toward What Is Actually Here

Grounding may involve:

  • The room you are in
  • Your feet on the floor
  • Sounds around you
  • Objects you can see

If you feel:

  • Dissociated
  • Disconnected
  • Overwhelmed by imagery

external Grounding may be the better choice.

Visualization vs. Mindfulness

Visualization Intentionally Creates or Evokes an Internal Experience

You choose something to imagine.

Mindfulness Usually Emphasizes Noticing What Is Already Present

Mindfulness may involve noticing:

  • Current sensations
  • Current thoughts
  • Current sounds
  • Current emotions

without deliberately replacing them with another scene.

Both involve intentional attention, but they use it differently.

Visualization vs. Progressive Muscle Relaxation

Visualization Primarily Uses Imagination

You deliberately focus on imagined scenes or sensations.

Progressive Muscle Relaxation Directly Works With Muscle Tension

PMR typically involves systematically:

tensing and releasing muscle groups.

The two techniques are sometimes combined, but they are different practices.

Visualization vs. Coping Ahead

Visualization Is the Broader Imagery Technique

It may be used for:

  • Relaxation
  • Distress tolerance
  • Attention refocusing
  • Mental rehearsal
Coping Ahead Is a Formal DBT Preparation Skill

Coping Ahead focuses specifically on:

preparing in advance for a situation likely to trigger difficult emotions or urges.

Mental imagery is used to rehearse coping effectively.

If your purpose is:

“I need to prepare for tomorrow,”

Coping Ahead gives you the fuller structure.

Visualization vs. IMPROVE

Imagery Is One Part of IMPROVE

IMPROVE is a formal DBT distress-tolerance skill.

It includes:

Imagery

along with several other ways to make a difficult moment more manageable.

Visualization Goes Deeper Into Imagery Itself

This page focuses specifically on how to:

  • Choose an image
  • Add sensory detail
  • Adapt imagery to your needs
  • Use imagery for relaxation or coping rehearsal

It can therefore support the Imagery component when you are using IMPROVE.

When Visualization Can Be Useful

  • When you feel overwhelmed and want to give your attention somewhere else to go
  • When you feel anxious and calming imagery works well for you
  • When you want to support physical relaxation
  • When you are using the Imagery portion of IMPROVE
  • When you want to mentally rehearse coping with an upcoming difficulty
  • When you want a relaxation practice that does not rely primarily on breathing
  • When you want to shift attention away from repetitive problem solving
  • When visualization helps you wind down before sleep
  • When you want a portable skill that requires little or no equipment
  • When you are recharging and want a structured low-demand activity

Related Skills

  • IMPROVE — the formal DBT distress-tolerance skill whose first component is Imagery.
  • Coping Ahead — using mental rehearsal to prepare for an anticipated difficult situation.
  • Grounding — focusing on actual present-moment sensory information when external orientation is more useful than imagery.
  • Breathing — a relaxation and regulation strategy that can be combined with imagery.
  • Progressive Muscle Relaxation — deliberately working with muscle tension and release.
  • Body Scan — noticing sensations that are actually present throughout your body.
  • Mindfulness — deliberately noticing current experience rather than creating an imagined one.
  • Thought Defusion — changing how you relate to thoughts, sometimes using imagery such as watching thoughts move away.
  • Self-Soothing — using comforting sensory experiences during distress.
  • Recharge / Unplug — stepping away from ongoing demands to restore capacity.

Tips for Practice

  • Remember that Visualization is a broader imagery technique, not a standalone formal DBT skill.
  • Remember that Imagery is formally included within DBT's IMPROVE skill.
  • Start with one simple image rather than trying to construct an elaborate scene.
  • Use a real place, an invented place, or a combination.
  • Choose a setting that actually works for you rather than using a stereotypically relaxing location.
  • Comfortable or neutral imagery can be enough.
  • You do not need to see vivid pictures in your mind.
  • People vary substantially in their ability to experience visual mental imagery.
  • Use sound, touch, temperature, smell, movement, words, or spatial awareness if those are easier.
  • Add sensory detail gradually.
  • Return to one detail whenever your attention wanders.
  • Do not grade yourself on how vivid the imagery is.
  • Use coping-focused imagery when preparing for a difficult situation.
  • Rehearse how you will respond, not a fantasy in which everything outside your control goes perfectly.
  • Remember that visualization does not make external events happen.
  • Visualization is not manifestation or a guarantee of an outcome.
  • Pair imagery with comfortable breathing if that helps.
  • Do not force a breathing pattern simply because you are visualizing.
  • Keep your eyes open when that feels more comfortable or grounding.
  • Stop the exercise if it increases anxiety, unwanted memories, or intrusive imagery.
  • Change the scene if a supposedly relaxing image has negative associations for you.
  • Use external Grounding if imagined experiences make you feel less connected to your actual surroundings.
  • Remember that relaxation techniques do not help everyone in every moment.
  • Use guided audio when following someone else's instructions makes visualization easier.
  • Modify guided imagery rather than feeling obligated to follow every suggested detail.
  • Do not use immersive visualization while driving or doing anything that requires full attention to your surroundings.
  • Do not use imagery as a replacement for needed medical or mental-health treatment.
  • Aim for: “I don't need to picture this perfectly. I can give my attention a supportive experience for a few moments.”